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peer pressure, assertive
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| what are the steps of refusing request | Step 1: state your position Step 2: State your reason Step 3: Be understanding |
| Making request | State 1: State the problem or situation to be changed Step 2:Tell what should be done to change the situation or solve the problem |
| Expressing your feelings | Expressing your feelings Step 1: Think about what you want to say Step 2: Tell the other person how you fell or what you think |
| Verbal and non verbal assertive skills | |
| Loudness of voice | Speak with a strong, Confident tone of voice |
| Fluency of spoken words | Speak in a smooth fashion without hesitating or tubing over your words |
| Eye contact | Look at the person directly in the eye |
| Facial Expression | Be certain your facial expression are saying what are saying ( Don't smile when you are telling someone you are angry) |
| Body postion | Stand straight facing directly facing the person you are talking to |
| Distance | Stand about three feet away from the person you are talking |
| ways of saying no | Simple No, Tell it like it is, Give an excuse, The big stall, Changing the standing, Broken record, Walk away, The cold shoulder, Avoiding The situation |
| Flatter | telling a person nice about himself |
| Logic reasoning or presenting facts | Giving scientist proof or a well known reasons |
| Appeal to Authority | Suggesting that a respected person behaves in a certain way or has a particular way |
| promise of popularity | Suggesting you will be like if you do something |
| Promise of reward or punishment | suggesting if you behave in a certain way you will be rewarded or punished |
| Persistence (nagging) | continual request to do something |
| Guilt | making someone fell badly |