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Habit 4
Habit 4 Study Guide
Question | Answer |
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Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what" - Always trying to get ahead of others as well as being better than other people. Low in consideration... high in courage. |
Lose-win | "I always get stepped on" - you're insecure most likely, and you're not brave enough to stand up for yourself. Low in courage. |
Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down everyone else will with me."- Therefore if you cant win, nobody else can either. You don't have courage for yourself or others. |
Win-Win | "We're going to win together" - Balancing courage and consideration helps you feel good as well as others. Both courage and consideration towards yourself and others. |
Depositing for other people (Deposit definition) | When you do something for that helps the relationship, it's a deposit. |
Withdrawing for other people (Withdraw definition) | When you do something that hurts the relationship, it's a withdrawal. |
Small acts of kindness | Example of deposit to treat people with kindness. |
Keeping promises | Example of deposit keeping and showing trust with you and said person. |
Keeping Confidence | Ex of deposit- When someone shares confidence doing take that away from them. |
Being Loyal | Ex of deposit- Avoid gossiping/backtalking. |
Setting clear expectations | Ex of deposit- Don't leave things unknown, follow through with what's expected. |
Apologizing and forgiving | Ex of deposit- If you're in the wrong, ask for forgiveness, if they're in the wrong, forgive them. |