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Habit 4 Study Guide
Think Win-Win
Term | Definition |
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Balance Courage and Consideration | I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own |
Win-Win | Unless other people win with you, you don’t truly win (High Courage/High Consideration) |
Win-Lose | You believe that in order for you to win that means others have to lose (High Courage/Low Consideration) |
Lose-Win | You have a permanent victim mentality (Low Courage/High Consideration) |
Lose-Lose | If you are losing then everyone has to lose (Low Courage/Low Consideration) |
Win-Win or No Deal | You need to prioritize finishing with your peers; even if they slow you down it will be worth it to have them finish by your side |
The Win-Win Mindset | People who think win-win or no deal live by two principles: courage and consideration |
Make Deposits in Other People’s Emotional Bank Accounts | I can make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other people’s Emotional Bank Accounts; when I do this, it’s easier to make new friends and build strong Relationships |
Find Out What a Deposit Is for the Other Person | Make sure the actions you take for people are actions that they feel benefit them |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | Even small acts of kindness can fill up people’s Emotional Bank Account; use kindness to build up and start relationships |
Keep Promises | Go through with your word or you can bankrupt the other person’s Emotional Bank Account |
Keep Confidences | Keep secrets if you are supposed to and do not spread rumors especially without confidence |
Be Loyal to the Absent | Even if you are talking about someone who is not there and they do not find out, it still speaks volume about your character |
Set Clear Expectations | Let people know your intentions for yourself and your expectations for them |
Apologize | If you are wrong then admit it, do not make excuses |
Forgive | Let things go to stop from hurting yourself |