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Love and Attraction
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| PROXIMITY | geographic nearness – is perhaps the most powerful predictor of friendship People are most likely to like, and even to marry, those who live in the same neighbourhood etc... |
| SYMMETRY IS ATTRACTIVE more likely to have larger number of sex partners | "Given ideal growing conditions, paired features such as ears, eyes and feet would come out matching perfectly. But pollution, disease and other hazards can disrupt development. As a result, the least resilient individuals tend to be the most lopsided." |
| HARD TO GET EFFECT | the tendency to prefer people who are highly selective in their social choices over those who are more readily available |
| HARD TO GET EFFECT CONTD. | Walster et al. study: men prefer a selectively hard-to-get woman, than a uniformly hard-to-get woman or a uniformly easy-to-get woman |
| EVOLUTIONARY PERSPECTIVE ON MATE SELECTION | Men prefer attractive physical features suggesting youth and health – and therefore reproductive potential Women prefer men who are mature, dominant, and affluent – suggesting capacity to support and protect offspring |
| PASSIONATE LOVE | an aroused state of intense positive absorption in another, usually present at the beginning of a love relationship |
| COMPANIONATE LOVE | the deep affectionate attachment we feel for those with whom our lives are intertwined |
| KEYS TO ENDURING RELATIONSHIPS | equity (both partners receive in proportion to what they give) self-disclosing intimacy |