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habit 4 study guide
| building effective relationships | working for their benefit as well as my own |
| win-lose | you win at the expense of others |
| lose-win | you lose and don't take responsibility for it, while others take advantage of you |
| lose-lose | you're a sore loser, if you cant win, nobody can |
| win-win or no deal | look out for the common good |
| emotional bank accounts | think of your new and old relationships as bank accounts with deposits (doing something that helps the relationship) and withdrawals (things that may hurt the relationship) |
| make deposits of kindness and helpfulness to people's EBA's | by doing this, you maintain relationships and its easier to make new ones |
| find out what a deposit is for the other person | make sure what you think a deposit is aligns with the other person's views on deposits |
| small acts of kindness | use kindness and positivity as currency and influence others |
| keep promises | big emotional withdrawals take a longer time to repair/ deposit back |
| keep confidence | be careful what you share to and about people |
| be loyal to the absent | avoid gossiping |
| set clear expectations | be clear and to the point, don't leave things fuzzy |
| apologize and forgive | learn to admit when you're in the wrong and forgive those who are wrong and ask for forgiveness |