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Habit 4 Study Guide
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| What is Habit 4? | Think Win-Win |
| Balance Courage and Consideration | Building effective relationships by working for their benefit while you work for your own. |
| Win-Win | High on courage and high on low |
| Win-lose | High on courage and low on consideration |
| Lose-Win | Low on courage and high on consideration |
| Lose-Lose | Low on courage and consideration |
| People who think Win-Win or No Deal live by two principles. | Courage and Consideration |
| Make Deposits in other people’s emotional Bank Accounts (EBA) | Key to making friends is to deposit acts of kindness and helpfulness in their Emotional Banks Accounts Card to avoid making withdrawals. |
| Deposits | When you do something wrong to help the relationship |
| Withdrawal | When you do something that hurts the relationship |
| Find out what a deposit is for the other person because _____ | What you think is a deposit for the other person may in fact be a withdrawal in their mind. |
| Keep promises | Be careful using “I promise, or I commit.” |
| Keep Confides | When someone shares something in confidence, keep it that way. |
| Be loyal to the absent | Avoid gossiping or backbiting |
| Set clear expectations | Don’t leave things fuzzy |
| If you are in the wrong,____ | Admit/apologize now. |
| Learn to forgive and to forget so that you don’t keep____ | Hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |