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Habit 4 Study Guide
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
Term | Definition |
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Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down, you're going down with me" |
Win-Win | "We're going to win together" |
Consideration | keeping others' feelings in mind |
Find Out What a Deposit is for then Other Person | find out what the other person likes because you may choose something that is actually a withdrawal |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | treat others with kindness because it is often a deposit for others |
Keep Promises | nothing bankrupts the EBA faster than to break a serious promise |
EBA (Emotional Bank Account) | the key to making friends is to deposit acts of kindness and helpfulness in their EBAs and avoid making withdrawals |
Keep Confidences | when someone shares something in confidence with you, keep it that way |
Be Loyal to the Absent | avoid gossiping or backbiting |
Set Clear Expectations | make clear demands and follow through on what's expected |
Apologize | if you're in the wrong, admit it now |
Forgive | learn to forgive and forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt |
Lose-Lose | envy and criticize others |
Lose-Lose | low courage-low consideration |
Win-Win | ready to walk away before someone loses |
Win-Win | high courage-high consideration |
Win-Lose | always trying to get ahead of others |
Win-Lose | high courage-low consideration |
Lose-Win | permanent victim personality/always getting walked all over |
Lose-Win | low courage-high consideration |
Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what" |
Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on" |