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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Questions | Answers |
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Win-Win is about building effective relationships with people while working for | their benefit as well as your own. |
Principles of win-win are | courage and consideration. |
See | you can win and others can too. |
Do | make deposits in the emotional bank account. |
Get | more 'wins' in life. |
Basic principle of successful living | you cant win at life unless other people win too. |
Win-lose is high on _____ and low on ____ | courage; consideration |
Lose-win is high on _____ and low on ____ | consideration; courage |
EBA stands for | emotional bank account |
What should you deposit into a friends EBA? | acts of kindness and helpfulness. |
How many examples are there of emotional deposits? | 8. |
Two rules to making deposits into the EBA. | 1. a deposit is only a deposit if the receiving person sees it as such. 2. it can take more than one deposit to make up for a withdrawal. |
Make good on your word and avoid using words like 'commit' or 'promise' | keep promises |
Limit the sharing of information that you received | keep confidences |
Avoid gossip and defend someone when they are not in your presence | be loyal to the absent |
Be clear, concise, and follow through | set clear expectations |
When you're wrong it is important that you do this | apologize |
Moving forward without malice after an apology | forgive |
Normally to do this people 'pay it forward' | do small acts of kindness |