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PSYC 1300-101CL
HABIT 4: THINK WIN-WIN
Main point | What it means |
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Courage | Be hopeful and positive, make things work out as the way you expected. |
Consideration | Be careful, take time to learn before heading to a decision. |
Balance courage and consideration | Work things out for benefits and giving the income fairly to everyone. |
Think win-lose | High on courage, low on consideration. It is good to try to be on top, but not by pushing others down. You are unkind and unsympathetic. |
Think lose-win | High on consideration, low on courage. You have not tried your best to work things out as you expected, but you end up win because of the dependent object. |
Think lose-lose | You are not a motivated person, you are way behind other people. You need to change your mindset and socialize more. |
Think win-win or no deal | High on courage, high on consideration. You are a great member of your team. Win together, win yourself. |
Make deposits in other people's emotional bank accounts (EBAs) | EBAs wherein you can make deposits and withdrawals your emotional. It is a tool that helps you make new friends and build strong relationship. |
Deposit in an EBA | Do small acts of kindness, keep promises, keep confidences, be loyal to the absent, set clear expectations, apologize, and forgive. |
Withdrawal from EBAs | Untrusted friends/coworkers, lying people, too competitive people, unkindness, people who use someone for benefits. |