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Habit 4
PSYC-1300-103CL
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Module 11: Balance Courage and Consideration | To build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own. |
| Win-Lose | Always trying to get ahead of others. You can't win unless other people lose. |
| Lose-Win | You say yes too fast, easily taken advantage of, and bury your feelings. |
| Lose-Lose | If you can't win, nobody wins. You get revenge and put other people down. |
| Win-Win or No Deal | You go for the win or no deal. |
| Lose-Win on Courage and Consideration Matrix | High in consideration, low in courage. Eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself. |
| Lose-Lose on Courage and Consideration Matrix | Low in both courage and consideration. You don't care if other people lose, and don't have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
| Win-Lose on Courage and Consideration Matrix | Low in consideration, high in courage. Inconsiderate, unkind, and unsympathetic. You want to be the best even if you hurt others. |
| Win-Win or No Deal on Courage and Consideration Matrix | High in courage and consideration. Go for the win, but ready to walk away before someone loses. |
| Module 12: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts (EBAs) | Make deposits of kindness and helpfulness in other's emotional bank account, makes it easier to make new friends. |
| Deposit | When you do something that helps the relationship. |
| Withdrawal | When you do something that hurts the relationship. |
| Deposit for Other Person's EBA | Find out what the other person would enjoy. |
| Do Small Act of Kindness for Other Person's EBA | Treat people with kindness, be courteous and respectful. |
| Keep Promises for Other Person's EBA | Make good on your word, don't break promises |
| Keep Confidences for Other Person's EBA | When someone shares something with you in confidence, don't spread it around. |
| Be Loyal to the Absent for Other Person's EBA | Avoid gossiping or backbiting, stick up for people. |
| Set Clear Expectations for Other Person's EBA | Don't leave things fuzzy, follow through on what's expected. |
| Apologize to Make Deposits for Other Person's EBA | If you're wrong, admit it, say sorry. |
| Forgive to Make Deposits for Other Person's EBA | Learn to forgive and forget. |