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habits 4
Term | Definition |
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Win-Lose | " I'm going to beat you no matter what". if your high on courage and low on consideration you're always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people |
Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on". if your low on courage and high on consideration, you are insecure, you're not brave enough to stick up for Yourself |
Lose-Lose | " If I go down, you're going down with me". If you cant win nobody can |
Win-Win or No Deal | " we're going to win together". your ready to walk away before someone loses including yourself |
Courage and Consideration Matrix | Courage on the Win-Lose, and Lose-Lose. Consideration on the Lose-lose and Lose-Win |
Find out what a deposit is for the other person | make deposits in other people emotion bank accounts |
Do small acts of kindness | a second deposit is to treat people with kindness |
Keep promises | make good on your word and be careful before using those words " I promise of commit |
Be loyal to the absent | Be loyal to your friends even when their not there avoid gossip and if you hear someone talking about your friend speak up |
Set clear Expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy. be upfront about your plans or your next move |
Apologize | If your in the wrong admit it, don't wait or make excuses for it |
Forgive | Learn to forgive and forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |