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Habit 4
Think win-Win
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| What is Habit about? | Its about thinking Win-Win and how its essential to your meaningful life. It's a basic principle of successful living. |
| What is "Win-Lose"? | "I'm going to beat you no matter what." If you're high on courage and low on consideration, you're always trying to get ahead of others. |
| What is "Lose-Win"? | "I always get stepped on." If you're low on courage and high on consideration, you're insecure. |
| What is "Lose-Lose"? | "If i'm going down, you're going down with me." If you can't win, nobody wins. |
| In that example, what was the situation type and what was the person like? | It was a "Lose-Lose" situation where the person knew he sucked, so he made the person suffer so that he could suffer too. So the student was reactive and was not being proactive. |
| What is "Win-Win or No Deal"? | "We're going to win together." Here you go for win-win or no deal. You're ready to walk away before someone loses-including yourself. |
| What is College about? | Relationships, you gain new friends, you form relationships with your professor, study-groups. |
| What are the 4 quadrants of Courage and Consideration Matrix? Part 1 | "Win-Win or No Deal" is in quadrant 1, so it is both high on Courage and Consideration, so be this. "Win-Lose" is in quadrant 2, so its high on Courage but low on Consideration." So don't be this. |
| What are the 4 quadrants of Courage and Consideration Matrix? Part 2 | "Lose-Lose" is in quadrant 3, so its both low in Courage and Consideration, so never be this. "Lose-Win" is in quadrant 4, so its high in Consideration but low in Courage, so don't be this. |
| Could you break down the meaning of "Lose-Win" based off of the Matrix? | If you're in the bottom right corner of the matrix, you're high in consideration but low in courage. You're eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself. |
| Could you break down the meaning of "Lose-Lose" based off of the Matrix? | If you're in the bottom left corner, you're low in both courage and consideration. You don't care if other people lose, nor do you have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
| Could you break down the meaning of "Win-Lose" based off of the Matrix? | If you're in the upper left corner, you're low in consideration and high in courage. You go for win-lose every time. You're bold but cold-unsympathetic, inconsiderate, and kind. You want to get ahead and beat others. |
| Could you break down the meaning of "Win-Win or No Deal" based off of the Matrix? | It's the upper-right corner where you want to be-high in both courage and consideration. You go for win-win or no deal. You're ready to walk away before someone loses-including yourself. |
| What is the Emotional Bank Accounts(EBAs)? | Its the bank account of the emotions of a person; depositing to them would mean to help the relationship, give respect and show support to them, and withdrawing is when you say something that hurts the person or in general upsets them. |
| What does this quote really mean "Find Out What a Deposit Is for the Other Person."? | It means that you don't know what that deposit to the person could be taken as, like you would think its a deposit but its in fact a withdraw. So find out what this person see's as deposits and withdraws. |
| Is it true that if you do small Acts of kindness, it and keep promises to your friend or anyone, that it helps the person's emotional Bank Account? | Yes it does! |
| Abbreviate why keeping confidence with your friend is important. | Well when someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way. Don't try to put these private things public because the confidence with that person drops, which also withdraws to the Emotional Bank Account for the person. |
| Should you always be loyal to the absent? | Yes because if a person is bad mouthing their friend, you should confront them about it and stop them, this would really increase the emotional bank account for the person getting bad mouthed. |
| Should you always set Clear Expectations with you and your friends? | Yes because it sets goals for y'all to achieve, so getting the mission done would feel amazing. |
| Is apologizing and forgiving a powerful tool for Emotional Bank Accounts? | Yes, because if you did something wrong and you apologize, it shows your owning up to it in which the friend will respect you for it. And for Forgive, when they apologize and you forgive them helps the bonding stay and grow. |
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