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habit 4 study guide
Term | Definition | Question | Answer |
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win-lose | You're high on courage and low on consideration. Always trying to get ahead of others | What is an "Emotional Bank Account"? | It's a relationship of those around you, withdrawals are negative and deposits are positive |
lose-win | You're low on courage and high on consideration. Insecure. Not brave enough to stick up for yourself | Why should a promise be held? | It can bankrupt an EBA even if it's a huge balance |
lose-lose | If you can't win nobody wins. You get revenge. You envy and criticize others | Why should we keep confidence? | So it doesn't make them feel humiliated and keeps you out of trouble |
win-win/no deal | Balancing courage and consideration. You're ready to walk away before someone loses | Why should you be loyal to the absent? | If you say bad things about others, they will think you are saying things about them too |
Why should we Apologize? | Making excuses instead of making things better, makes everything much worse |