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Habit 4 Study Guide
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Think Win-Win | The habit of mutual benefit |
| I can build effective relationships with people by | working for their benefit as well as my own |
| Win-Lose | HIgh on courage and low on consideration. You can't win unless other people lose. |
| Lose-Win | Low on courage and high on consideration. Permanent victim mentality. |
| Lose-Lose | If you can't win, nobody wins. |
| Win-Win or no deal | Balancing courage and consideration |
| The two principles to live by | Courage and consideration |
| Eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself | Lose-Win |
| You don't care if other people lose, or have the courage to stand up for yourself | Lose-Lose |
| Unsympathetic, inconsiderate, unkind | Win-Lose |
| I can make deposits of kindness into other people's Emotional Bank Accounts (EBAs). When I do this... | ...it's easier to make new friends and build strong relationships. |
| Find out what a deposit is for the other person by | finding out what will deposit or withdraw from their EBA. |
| 7 ways to deposit into other's EBAs | Do small acts of kindness, Keep promises, Keep confidences, Be loyal to the absent, Set clear expectations, Apologize, Forgive. |
| 2 rules for making deposits in the emotional bank account | A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one. It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |