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Habit 4
Think win win
Question | Answer |
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Win Win | Unless other people win you, you don't truly win. |
Win Lose | High on courage and low on consideration. |
Lose Win | Low on courage and high on consideration. |
Lose Lose | If you can't win, nobody wins. |
Win Win or No Deal | Willing to walk away before someone loses including yourself. Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help others feel good and for you to feel good too. |
Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts | Be kind and helpful to people, by doing this it's easier to make new friends and build strong relationships. |
Find Out What a Deposit is for the Other Person | What you think is a good thing or a benefit for one person may be the opposite so you must communicate to figure it out. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | Treat people with kindness no matter how small the act is. |
Keep Promises | Be dependable and make good on your word. |
Keep Confidences | When someone shares something with you in confidence keep it that way. |
Be Loyal to the Absent | Avoid gossiping and stick up for your friends or people you know if you hear them getting talked about badly even if they're not present. |
Set Clear Expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy make your point clear and follow through with whats expected. |
Apologize | If you're in the wrong take accountability. |
Forgive | Learn to forgive and forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |