Save
Busy. Please wait.
Log in with Clever
or

show password
Forgot Password?

Don't have an account?  Sign up 
Sign up using Clever
or

Username is available taken
show password


Make sure to remember your password. If you forget it there is no way for StudyStack to send you a reset link. You would need to create a new account.
Your email address is only used to allow you to reset your password. See our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service.


Already a StudyStack user? Log In

Reset Password
Enter the associated with your account, and we'll email you a link to reset your password.
focusNode
Didn't know it?
click below
 
Knew it?
click below
Don't Know
Remaining cards (0)
Know
0:00
Embed Code - If you would like this activity on your web page, copy the script below and paste it into your web page.

  Normal Size     Small Size show me how

Habit 4:ThinkWin-Win

QuestionAnswer
Win-Lose Situation You're always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. "I'm going to bear you no matter what."
Lose-Win Situation Permanent victim mentality. Insecure and not brave enough to stick up for yourself. "I always get stepped on."
Lose-Lose Situation If you can't win, nobody wins. "If I'm going down, you're going down with me."
Win Situation Students with this paradigm think only of themselves and not others. As long as they get their way they don't care how others do. "As long as I win, I don't care if you win or lose."
Scarcity Mentality The belief that the world is a pie and there is only so much of it go around.
Abundance Mentality There is plenty to go around for everybody. The "pie" can grow and grow forever.
Win-Win or No Deal "Let's find a solution that works for both of us." If I can't win, and you can't win, then let's forget it. I'd like to win, but not unless you win too.
Find Out What a Deposit Is for the Other Person What you think might be a deposit may be a withdrawal to the other person. You won't know unless you ask.
Do Small Acts of Kindness Treat people with kindness.
Keep Promises Make good on your word and be very careful before using the words "I promise" or "I commit".
Be Loyal Keep confidences. When someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way. Be loyal to the absent. Avoid gossiping or backbiting.
Set Clear Expectations Don't leave things fuzzy.
Apologize If you're in the wrong about something, admit it. Making excuses instead of making things better turns into an even bigger withdrawal.
Give Feedback Sincere, honest feedback is a deposit if done with tact, so let people know how you feel and what is a win for you.
Forgive Learn to forgive and forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. Don't let yesterday hold your tomorrow hostage.
Created by: maggiereed26066
Popular Psychology sets

 

 



Voices

Use these flashcards to help memorize information. Look at the large card and try to recall what is on the other side. Then click the card to flip it. If you knew the answer, click the green Know box. Otherwise, click the red Don't know box.

When you've placed seven or more cards in the Don't know box, click "retry" to try those cards again.

If you've accidentally put the card in the wrong box, just click on the card to take it out of the box.

You can also use your keyboard to move the cards as follows:

If you are logged in to your account, this website will remember which cards you know and don't know so that they are in the same box the next time you log in.

When you need a break, try one of the other activities listed below the flashcards like Matching, Snowman, or Hungry Bug. Although it may feel like you're playing a game, your brain is still making more connections with the information to help you out.

To see how well you know the information, try the Quiz or Test activity.

Pass complete!
"Know" box contains:
Time elapsed:
Retries:
restart all cards