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| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Family's Emotional Bank Account | Family is important but very rocky, it is necessary that we ask ourselves as students, " What deposits do I make?" or "What withdrawals should I make up for?" |
| Rules for Making Deposits | There are two rules to remember for making deposits in the Emotional Bank Account. First one is, a deposit is the a true deposit if the other person see it as one. The second one is an already satisified need is not a big motivator. |
| Abundance Mentality | People with this mindset are happy for others and the milestones they have hit. They know there is enough success to go around for everyone. |
| Scarcity Mentality | People with this mindset are threatened by other's success. It could be friends or family or significant other. Other's accompliments take the spotlight from the individuals. |
| Stop and Think | When faced with an opportunity, slow yourself down and ask yourself questions that will be beneficial to you and the situation you are in. |
| Self-Worth | About you and what is in your heart, tour unique talents and potiential, and improving the life you have at hand: but has nothing tp do with anyone else |
| Effective Students See | They are able to to be in high courage and consideration. To having an abundance, which is plenty for themselves and others. |
| Effective Students Get | More shared wins with teammates and fellow classmates, faster and better solutions to problems, and richer and more meaningful friendships |
| Effective Students Do | Balance courage with consideration, feel happy for others success, look for openings to partners and collaboration, and share credit and recognition. |
| Win-Lose | You are low in consideration and high in courage. |
| Win-Win or No Deal | Balancing courage and consideration |
| Lose-Lose | You are low in both courage and consideration. |
| Lose-Win | You are high in consideration but low in courage. |
| Forgive | Learn to forgive and forgive so that you don't keep hurting yourself that way you were hurt. |
| Give feedback | Honest feedback is a deposit if it is done with tact, so let people know how you feel and what a win it is for you. |
| Apologize | If you are wrong admit it, do not wait or make excuses for your behavior. |
| Set Clear Expectations | Do not leave things fuzzy, say and follow through on what is excepted. |
| Be Loyal | Keep confidences, be loyal to the absent, and avoid gossiping, or back stabbing . |
| Do Small Acts of Kindess | Take the initiative, be kind to others, create connections, or introduce yourself to others. |