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Habit 4 Study Guide
Think Win-Win
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Win-Lose | Low in consideration and high in courage. You're bold but cold. You want to get ahead even if it means stepping on someone to get there. |
| Lose-Win | High in consideration but low in courage. Eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself. You become a doormat while someone else makes the decision. |
| Lose-Lose | Low in both consideration and courage. Don't care if other people lose, nor do you have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
| Win-Win or No Deal | High in both consideration and courage. Ready to walk away before someone else loses. |
| Emotional Bank Account | When you do something positive that is a deposit. When you do something negative to hurt a relationship that is a withdrawal. |
| Withdrawal | Asked you to take notes and attend class while they went on vacation. Example of which emotional bank account? |
| Deposit | Gave you opera tickets for your birthday. Which emotional bank account? |
| Neutral | Took you to lunch at a fast food restaurant so you could talk about a school project you were working on. |
| Deposit | Treat people with kindness is an example of what kind of emotional bank account? |
| Withdrawal | Lies or broken promises are an example of which transaction in an emotional bank account? |
| Keep confidences with them | When someone shares something with you in private you should keep what with that person? |
| Be loyal to the absent | Don't gossip or backbite because others will wonder if you do the same with them. |
| Set Clear Expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy. Set up the way things should be done and follow through on them. |
| Apologize | If you're in the wrong, admit it now! |
| Forgive | Learn to forgive and to forget so that you don't have to keep hurting yourself. |