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Module 4 Habit 4
| Key points | terms/defintions |
|---|---|
| Balance Courage and Consideration | Building effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as mine |
| Win-Lose | You're in it for the win at the expense of the other losing |
| Lose-Win | Not sticking up for yourself, allowing people to step on you and take advantage, you have insecurity issue |
| Lose-Lose | If I don't win, nobody wins. You put others down and envy and criticize others |
| Win-Win or No Deal | You're in it for the both people, you want them to succeed as well as you, you make sure they good and you have balance for both courage and consideration |
| Making Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts | Making Deposits of kindness and helpfulness in people's Emotional accounts |
| Finding out what a Deposit is for another person | You might think to you what is considered a deposit may be a withdrawal for the other person |
| Do Acts of Kindness | Do things just because not needed validation, withdrawals would be to be unkind, disrespectful and discourteous |
| Other ways to make Deposits | Keep promises, confidences, be loyal not absent, set clear expectations, apologize, forgive |
| Two Rules for Making Deposits | 1. A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one. 2. It can take one or more deposits to make up for a withdrawal. |