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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| What is Habit 4? | Think Win-Win |
| What does Think Win-Win mean? | Unless other people win with you, you don't truly win. |
| What kind of victory is Habit 4? | Public victory |
| Win-Lose | You can't win unless others lose |
| Lose-Win | You are not brave enough to stick up for yourself |
| Lose-Lose | If you can't win, nobody wins |
| Win-Win | You're ready to walk away before someone loses- including yourself. Balancing consideration and courage. |
| High consideration, low courage | Lose-Win |
| Low consideration, low courage | Lose-Lose |
| Low consideration, high courage | Win-Lose |
| High consideration, high courage | Win-Win |
| Deposit | Something that helps a relationship |
| Withdrawal | Something that hurts a relationship |
| Why is it important to find out what s deposit is for the other person? | What you think is a deposit for the other person may be in fact a withdrawal in their mind |
| What is the withdrawal/opposite to doing small acts of kindness? | Being unkind, discourteous, and disrespectful |
| What habit should you look back on before sending an email/text expressing irritation with another? | Habit 1: Be Proactive (press pause) |
| What bankrupts relationships the fastest? | Breaking promises |
| When someone shares something with you in confidence, what should you do? | Keep it that way |
| What does it mean to be loyal to the absent? | avoid gossiping or backbiting |
| When setting clear expectations don't leave things ______? | fuzzy |
| What is the biggest withdrawal while apologizing? | Making excuses |
| What should you do after someone apologizes? | Forgive and forget, so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt |