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HABIT 4 STUDY GUIDE
Term | Definition |
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WIN- LOSE | You're always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. you cant win unless other people lose. |
LOSE-WIN | You have a permanent victim mentality and you're always looking for sympathy. you say yes to fast and are easily taken advantage of. |
LOSE-LOSE | If you can't win, nobody wins. you envy and criticize others and also willing to give up chances for your own success. |
WIN- WIN OR NO DEAL | "Were going to win together" you're ready to walk away before someone loses including yourself. |
COURAGE AND CONSIDERATION | People who think win- win or no deal |
EBAS Deposits vs. withdrawal's | Emotional bank account, make deposits of kindness and helpfulness to help build strong relationships and make new friends. Helping the relationship is a deposit and when you hurt the relationship that's a withdrawal. |
DEPOSITS | Small acts of kindness, keep promises, keep confidence, be loyal to the absent, set clear expectations, apologize, and forgive. |
HABIT 4 SUMMARY | " I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own". I learned that in order to win you cant be selfish and you cant be lazy you have to make deposits into your life and your relationships in order to win. |