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Habit 4 Study Guide
Think Win-Win
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| How are effective relationships built with people? | By working for their benefit as well as yours. |
| Win-Lose | Not being able to win unless someone else loses. Always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. |
| Lose-Win | Always saying "yes" too fast, easily being taken advantage of, and burying a lot of feelings. Never stick up for yourself. |
| Lose-Lose | Putting other people down, even yourself. You envy and criticize others. |
| Win-Win or No Deal | Balancing courage and consideration in order to make others feel good as well as yourself. |
| How can you make new friends and build stronger relationships? | Make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other people's Emotional Bank Accounts (EBAs). |
| What counts as a deposit? | When you do something that helps the relationship. |
| What counts as a withdrawal? | When you do something that hurts the relationship. |
| Why should you find out what a deposit is for other people? | Depending on the person, the meaning of a deposit can vary. What you think is a deposit may be a withdrawal in their mind. |
| What's a second deposit you could do? | Treat people with kindness, not only just in person, but online. |
| What bankrupts the EBA the fastest, even if you have a huge balance? | Breaking a serious promise. Always keep your promises. |
| Keep Confidence | When being shared something in confidence, keep it that way. |
| Be Loyal to the Absent | Avoid Gossip or backbiting. |
| Set Clear Expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy. |
| Apologize | If you're in the wrong. admit it now instead of making excuses. |
| Forgive | Forgive and forget so you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |