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Habit 4
Think win win
HABIT 4 THINK WIN-WIN | THE HABIT OF SEEKING MUTUAL BENEFIT. |
WHAT DOES HABIT 4 TEACH YOU? | NOT TO BE SELFISH AND EMOTIONALLY INVEST YOURSELF WITH OTHERS. |
SCARCITY MENTALITY | THE MINDSET OF THINKING THERE ISN'T ENOUGH FOR EVRYONE AND EVERY PIECE YOU SPLIT THE LESS YOU'LL RECEIVE. BAD TO HAVE THIS. |
ABUNDANCE MENTALITY | BELIEVING THERE IS PLANTY ENOUGH TO GO AROUND FOR EVERYBODY. BELIEVES THE "PIE" CAN GROW & GROW FOREVER. |
WIN-LOSE | YOU THINK YOU CAN'T WIN WITHOUT BEATING OTHERS, ALWAYS TRYING TO BE BETTER THAN SOMEONE ELSE. |
LOSE-WIN | IF YOU LOSE YOU JUST BURY IT INSIDE INSTEAD OF TALKING TO SOMEONE. YOU PITY YOURSELF AND ALWAYS ACT LIKE A VICTIM. |
LOSE-LOSE | IF YOU CAN'TWIN NO ONE ELSE CAN WIN. PUTTING OTHER PEOPLE DOWN WITH YOU. |
WIN | SELFISHNESS. THEY JUST WANT TO WIN AND DON'T CARE FOR OTHERS. |
WIN-WIN OR NO DEAL | FINDING A WAY TO BOTH SUCCEED AND GAIN PERSONAL ACHIVEMENTS. WORKING TOGETHER WITH SOMEONE IN ORDER TO FIND A SOLUTION TO A PROBLEM. WANT EVERYONE TO WIN AND BE HAPPY. |
WHAT DO STUDENTS THAT THINK WIN - WIN DO? | BALANCE COURAGE WITH CONSIDERATION, FEEL HAPPY SEEING OTHERS SUCCEED, SHARE THE CREDIT, AND RECOGNITION, EMOTIONALLY INVEST THEMSELVES WITH OTHERS, SEEK OPPORTUNITIES TO COLLABORATE WITH OTHERS. |
WHAT 2 PRINCIPLES DO PEOPLE THAT THINK WIN-WIN HAVE? | COURAGE AND CONSIDERATION. |
FEEL HAPPY FOR THE SUCCESSES OF OTHERS | SEEING OTHERS SUCCEED SHOULD BRING YOU JOY, NOT TO FEEL THREATENED BY OTHERS SUCCESS. |
SHARE CREDIT AND RECOGNITION | SHARING THE PODIUM WITH OTHERS SHOULD MAKE YOU FEEL MORE POWERFUL AND CONFIDENT. |
FIND OUT WHAT A DEPOSIT IS FOR OTHERS | FIND OUT WHAT INTERESTS THE OTHER PERSON AND MAKEA CONNECTION WITH THEM WITH THAT. |
DO SMALL ACTS OF KINDNESS | ONCE YOU DO THIS PEOPLE ARE WILLING TO HELP YOU OUT AS WELL AND FEEL MORE COMFORT BEING AROUND YOU. |
KEEP PROMISES | IT BUILDS TRUST AND YOUR REPUTATION UP. |
BE LOYAL | KEEP SECRETS AND DON'T SWITCH UP ON ANYONE. AVOID GOSSIPING. |
SET CLEAR EXPECTATIONS | BE DIRECT AND CLEAR WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF SOMETHING. |
APOLOGIZE | ADMIT WHEN YOU'RE IN THE WRONG EVEN IF IT'S HARD. |
GIVE FEEDBACK | LET PEOPLE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND DON'T HIDE ANYHTING YOU MIGHT REGRET NOT SHOWING LATER. |
FORGIVE | FORGIVE AND FORGET,DON'T LET WHAT HAPPENED YESTERDAY HOLD YOU TOMORROW HOSTAGE. |
HOW TO THINK CRITICALLY? | YOU SEE BOTH SIDES OF AN ISSUE, FIND EVIDENCE FOR EACH CLAIM AND MAKE A DECISION WITH THAT. KEEP AN OPEN MIND. |
APPEAL TO AUTHORITY | TRY TO LISTEN TO THE BIAS AND TRY TO BUILD TRUST. |
CAUSE AND EFFECT | TRY SOMETHING AND SEE IF IT WORKS OUT. |
PROBABILITY | NOT TAKING A SMALL RISKCA CAUSE A HUGE RISK. |
FALSE ANALOGY | SAYING SOMETHING IS LIKE SOMETHING ELSE IS COMPARING THE TWO THINGS. |