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Habit 4 SG
Think Win-Win
| Question/ Term | Answer/ Defining Sentence |
|---|---|
| I can build effective relationships with people be working... | For their benefit as well as my own |
| Unless other people win with you... | You don't truly win |
| Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what." |
| Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on." |
| Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down, you are going down with me." |
| Win-Win or No Deal | "We are going to win together." |
| I can make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other people's ___________ _________ _________. When I do this, it is easier to make new friends and build strong relationships. | Emotional Bank Accounts or EBA |
| What is it called when you do something that helps the relationship? | Deposit |
| What is it called when you do something that hurts the relationship? | Withdrawal |
| Do small acts of _________. | Kindness |
| A second deposit is to? | Treat people with kindness |
| A second withdrawal is to? | Be unkind |
| What bankrupts the EBA? | Breaking promises |
| Keep Confidences | When someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way. |
| Be loyal to the absent | Avoid gossiping or backbiting |
| Set clear expectations | Do not leave things fuzzy |
| Apologize | If you are in the wrong, admit it now |
| Forgive | Learn to forgive and forget so that you do not keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |