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Habit 4 Study guide
Habit 4
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Win-Lose | High on courage, low on consideration. You can't win unless other people lose. |
| Lose-Win | Low on courage, high on consideration, you're insecure. Eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself. |
| Lose-Lose | If you can't win, no one will. Envy and criticize others You don't care if others lose. |
| Win-win or No deal | Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help others feel good and you to feel good too. Proactive patience |
| Do small acts of kindness | Take the initiative, be kind to others, make connections. |
| Be loyal to the absent | Avoid gossiping, stick up for people. If you hear someone bad mouthing a friend, speak up |
| Set clear expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy, always follow through on what's expected. |
| Apologize and forgive | If you're in the wrong, admit it now. Learn to forgive and forget. |
| Keep Promises | Be careful before using the words, "I promise or I commit" Bankrupts a EBA fastest. |
| EBA | Emotional Bank Account, exist in your online relationships and offline relationships. Use Habit 1 skill and pause before you press send |
| Deposit | When you do something that helps the relationship. Find out what a deposit is, it could possibly be a withdrawal |
| Withdrawal | When you do something that hurts the relationship. |
| Keep Confidences | Be careful about what you spread around and what information you post on social media. When someone shares with you keep it private. |