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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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Balance Courage and Consideration | Build effective relationships with people by working for both their and my own benefit. |
Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what" High on Courage and low on consideration. Winning at the cost of others |
Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on" Low on Courage and high on consideration. You don't stick up for yourself. Saying yes too fast. |
Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down you're going down with me" If you can't win, no one wins. You criticize, envy and put people down. |
Win-Win or No Deal | "We're going to win together" You will walk away before someone loses. Balance of courage and consideration. |
Making Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Account | Making deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other peoples Emotional Bank Accounts. Easier to build meaningful relationships and friendships. |
Positive Deposits | Kindness, keeping promises, keep confidences, be loyal to friends, no gossiping, backstabbing, apologize, and forgive |