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Habit 4 Study Guide
Flash Cards for Habit 4 - Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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Q: What are two ways to put "Habit 4 - Think Win-Win" into practice? | A: Balance courage with consideration, and make deposits in other people's emotional bank accounts. |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: "Think Win-Win" is about building effective relationships with people by working for ________ benefit while you are working for __________ benefit. | A: their & your own |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: See "It's possible to win in such a way that others can win too." Do "Balance courage and consideration, and make deposits in the emotional bank account." Get "_______________" | A: More "wins" in life and better relationships. |
Q: A basic principle of successful living is "You can't win at life unless other people _____________. | A: win also |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: According to the "Courage and Consideration Matrix" you are thinking Win-Lose if you are _________ on courage and __________ on consideration. | A: high (courage) & low (consideration) |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: Thinking Win-Lose, you can't win unless other people ________. | A: lose |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: According to the "Courage and Consideration Matrix" you are thinking Lose-Win if you are _________ on courage and __________ on consideration. | A: low (courage) & high (consideration) |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: Thinking Lose-Win, you chose to be a ___________ for others. | A: doormat |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: According to the "Courage and Consideration Matrix" you are thinking Lose-Lose if you are _________ on courage and __________ on consideration. | A: low (courage) & low (consideration) |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: Thinking Lose-Lose, If you _______win, then __________ wins. | A: can't & nobody |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: According to the "Courage and Consideration Matrix" you are thinking Win-Win if you are _________ on courage and __________ on consideration. | A: high (courage) & high (consideration) |
Q: Balance Courage with Consideration: Thinking Win-Win, you go for the win-win or ___________. | A: no deal |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: The key to making friends is to deposit acts of __________ and __________ in their Emotional Bank Accounts. | A: kindness & helpfulness |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: You have to find out what a deposit is for the other person, because what you may think is a deposit could be a _____________ in their mind. | A: withdrawal |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: A second deposit is to treat people with ________. You should do _____________________. | A: kindness & small acts of kindness |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: Nothing bankrupts an emotional bank account faster than ________ promises. You should always _________ promises. | A: break & keep |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: If someone shares something with you in ____________, keep it that way. | A: confidence |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: What does "Be loyal to the absent" mean? | A: Avoid gossiping or backbiting. Stick up for people and if someone is badmouthing a friend, speak up. |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: You should always set clear __________. | A: expectations |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: If you are in the wrong, ___________it and ___________. | A: admit & apologize |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: Learn to ________ and _________ so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. | A: forgive & forget |
Q: Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts: What are two rules for making deposits? | A: 1. A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as a deposit. 2. It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |