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Habit 4 study guide
Term | Definition |
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Balance,courage,and consideration | You should build effective relationships with people by working for the benefit of both parties. |
Habit 4 statement | You don’t truly win if other people don’t win with you. |
Win-lose | You win if others lose |
Lose-win | Constantly lose letting others win. |
Lose-lose | If they lose they bring people down with them . |
Win-win or no deal | Winning is winning with other people |
Lose-win | Don’t stand up for yourself because you want to be admired. |
Lose-win | You don’t want trouble so you let people step all over you. |
Lose-lose | That you don’t care if others lose. |
Lose-lose | You don’t have the courage to stand up for yourself and defend yourself. |
Win-lose | You see life as a competition |
Win-lose | You are bold but unkind. |
Win-win or no deal | You balance courage and consideration. |
EBA | Emotional bank account |
Making deposits in others EBA’S | This helps make new friends and build strong relationships. |
Finding out what a deposit is for another person. | Sometimes what you think is a deposit could actually be a withdrawal. |
Do small acts of kindness | An effective way to deposit into a persons EBA. |
Keep promises | Breaking promises breaks trust and bankrupts a persons EBA. |
Keep confidences | Keep people who trust you. |
Be loyal to the absent. | Avoid gossiping and backstabbing or backbiting. |
Set clear expectations | Be clear on what’s expected then follow through on it. |
Apologize | Don’t wait to admit when you are wrong. |
Forgive | Forgive and forget to start healing. |