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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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Principles of Courage and Consideration | See-Its possible to win in a way that others win too. Do-Balance Courage with Consideration. Get=More "wins" in life and better relationships. |
Win-Lose Top | Top Left of the Matrix I'm going to beat you no matter what |
Lose-Win | Bottom Right of the Matrix I always get stepped on |
Lose-Lose | Bottom Left of the Matrix If I'm going down, you're going with me |
Win-Win or No Deal | Top Right of the Matrix We're going to win together |
Which corner is the most beneficial | Top Right of the Matrix-Win Win |
Emotional Bank Account Transactions | Deposit-Kindness and Helpfulness Withdrawal-Hurtful words or Actions |
How can you ensure a deposit? | Find out what the other person values |
What are some kinds of deposits? (7) | Small acts of kindness Keep promises Keep confidences Be loyal to the Absent Set clear expectations Apologize Forgive |
Rules for making deposits? | A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one. It can take one of more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |