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Habit 4 Study Guide
PSYC
Balance Courage and Consideration | build effective relationships with people by working for the benefit of both parties |
Habit 4 | you don't truly win if other people don't win with you |
Win-Lose | you win if others lose |
Lose-Win | constantly lose letting others win |
Lose-Lose | if they lose they bring people down with them |
Win-Win or No Deal | winning is winning with other people |
Lose-Win | don't stand up for yourself because you want to be liked |
Lose-Win | don't want trouble so you let people step on you |
Lose-Lose | you don't care if others lose |
Lose-Lose | you don't have the courage to stand up for yourself |
Win-Lose | you see life as a competition |
Win-Lose | you are bold but unkind |
Win-Win or No Deal | you balance courage and consideration |
EBA | Emotional Bank Account |
Making deposits in other's EBA's | this helps make new friends and build strong relationships |
Find Out What a Deposit is for the Other Person | sometimes what you think is a deposit could be a withdrawal |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | an effective way to deposit into a person's EBA |
Keep Promises | breaking promises breaks trust and bankrupts an EBA |
Keep Confidences | keep people who trust you |
Be Loyal to the Absent | avoid gossiping and backbiting |
Set Clear Expectations | be clear on what's expected then follow through on it |
Apologize | don't wait to admit when you're in the wrong |
Forgive | forgive and forget to start healing |