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Habit 4 Study Guide
Term | Definition |
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Think Win-Win | Building effective relationships with people by working for their benefit while you are working for your own benefit. |
Win-Lose | Always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. |
Lose-Win | Being insecure, always looking for sympathy and having a permanent victim mentality. |
Lose-Lose | If you can't win, nobody wins. Envy and criticize others. Put other people down and often yourself too. |
Win-Win | Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help others feel good and for you to feel good too. |
Courage and Consideration | People who think win-win or no deal live by this two principles. |
EBA | Emotional Bank Accounts, your relationship as a bank account in which you can make deposits and withdrawals, but in this case, the deposits and withdrawals are emotional. |
Deposits | Acts of kindness and helpfulness. Ex: Keep promises, keep confidences, be loyal to the absent, set clear expectations, apologize, and forgive. |
Withdrawals | Doing something that hurts the relationship. |