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Habit 4
Study Guide
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Basic principle of living a successful life? | Think Win-Win Method. |
| Module 11 Main Point? | I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefits as well as my own. |
| 1st paradigm of habit 4? | Win-Lose. |
| 2nd paradigm of habit 4? | Lose-Win. |
| 3rd paradigm of habit 4? | Lose-Lose. |
| 4th paradigm of habit 4? | Win-Win / No Deal. |
| Example of Win-Lose quote? | I can't win unless other people lose. |
| Example of Lose-Win quote? | I'm not brave enough to stick up for myself. |
| Example of Lose-Lose quote? | If I go down, you're going down with me. |
| Example of Win-Win / No Deal quote? | we're going to win together. |
| What is the secret to a great relationship? | Balancing courage and consideration. |
| If you're in the bottom-right corner of the matrix, you're? | High on consideration but low in courage. |
| If you're in the bottom-left corner of the matrix, you're? | Low in both consideration and courage. |
| If you're in the upper-left corner of the matrix, you're? | Low in consideration and high in courage. |
| If you're in the upper-right corner of the matrix, you're? | High in both courage and consideration. |
| Module 12 Main Point? | I can make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other people's emotional bank accounts. When I do this, it's easier to make new friends and build strong relationships. |
| Relationships are like a? | Bank account. |
| When you do something that helps the relationship, that's a? | Deposit. |
| When you do something that hurts a relationships, that's a? | Withdrawal. |
| Example of deposit? | kindness. |
| Example of withdrawal? | Disrespectful. |
| How to remember the 6 important thing in an emotional bank account? | fab skk |
| F stands for? | Forgive. |
| A stands for? | Apologize. |
| B stands for? | Be loyal to the absent. |
| S stands for? | Set clear expectations. |
| K stands for? | Keep confidence. |
| K stands for? | Keep promises. |
| Do you have to find out what a deposit is for the other person? | Yes. |