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Habit 4 Flashcards
What is a Win-Lose? | "I'm going to beat you no matter what". |
What is a Lose-Win? | "I always get stepped on and everybody takes advantage of me". |
What is a Lose-Lose? | "If I cannot win then you wont either". |
What is a Win-Win? | "we are all going to win together". |
What is an Emotional Bank Account? | Thinking of you're relationships as bank accounts in which you can make deposits and withdrawals. |
What are the 7 good ways to make deposits into your EBA? | 1. Be kind 2. Keep promises 3. Keep confidences 4.Be loyal to the absent 5. Set clear expectations 6. Apologize 7. Forgive |
What are some things that can cause withdrawals in your EBA? | Be unkind, break promises, not being able to keep secrets, gossiping, making excuses. |
What is the first rule for making deposits in the Emotional Bank Account? | A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one. |
What is the second rule for making deposits in the Emotional Bank Account? | It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |