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Think Win-Win
The Habit of Mutual Benefit
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Balance Courage and Consideration | Build effective relationships by working with people for their benefit as well as my own. |
| Win-Win or no deal | unless others win you don't win; balance. |
| Lose-Win | low on courage and high on consideration; insecure. |
| Win-Lose | high on courage low on consideration; proud. |
| Lose-Lose | if you can't win nobody wins; revenge. |
| Where in the matrix is Lose-Win ? | Bottom-Right of matrix. |
| Where in the matrix is Lose-Lose ? | Bottom- Left of matrix. |
| Where in the matrix is Win-Lose ? | Upper-Left of matrix. |
| where do you want to be in the matrix ? | Upper-right in the Win-Win or No Deal. |
| Make deposits in other people (EBAs) | deposits of kindness and helpfulness =stronger relationships, new friends |
| (EBAs)? | Emotional Bank Accounts |
| Deposit or Withdrawal which one is it ? | changes by the person and the act; a deposit of one may be a withdrawal from someone else. |
| what are Deposits ? | kindness; small acts of kindness |
| what are Withdrawals? | unkind, discourteous and disrespectful acts; opposite of deposits |
| keep from making withdrawals by and keep your balance by ? | keep promises ,be loyal to the absent, apologize keep confidences, set clear expectations, forgive |
| Rule 1. for making deposits | 1.a deposit only counts as a deposits if the other person see it as one. |
| Rule 2. for making deposits | 2. it may take more than one deposits to make up for a one withdrawal. |