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Habit 4 Study Guide
Habit 4
Question | Answer |
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Win-Lose | You can't win unless other people lose and you're always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. |
Lose-Win | You say yes too fast, are easily taken advantage of, and bury a lot of feelings which results In having a permanent victim mentality. |
Lose-Lose | If you can't win nobody can. You envy and criticize others and put them down, often resulting in putting yourself down. |
Win | You think of only yourself and not others. As long as you get what you want you don't care how it effects others or how they do. |
Win-Win or No Deal | You want everybody to win because there's enough to go around to everybody. You want to win but only if others can too. |
Find Out What a Deposit Is For the Other Person | What you think is a deposit for the other person might be a withdrawal in their mind. You won't know unless you find out. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | There are times to hold back, but if you want to make friends, do the little kindnesses. In relationships the little things are the big things. |
Keep Promises | Do what you say you're going to do because you can't talk yourself out of problems you behave yourself into. |
Be Loyal | Be loyal to the absent, stand up for your friends, and keep people's private information they share with you private. |
Set Clear Expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy and ask questions if needed, and follow through on what's expected. |
Apologize | Admit if you're wrong and don't wait to apologize or make excuses for your behavior. |
Give Feedback | Let people know how you honestly feel and what is a win for you. |
Forgive | Getting even or talking about others failings won't help you in any way. Forgive so you can free yourself of the pain. |