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Habit 4
Think win-win
Term | Definition |
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what is the win-lose mentality? | you can't win unless other people lose |
what is the lose-win mentality? | you're always the victim |
what is the lose-lose mentality? | if you can't win, nobody can |
what is the win-win mentality? | you go for the win-win or it's no deal |
what is the main point of thinking win-win? | building relationships with people while working for both of your benefits |
what is the key to making friends according to habit 4? | depositing acts of kindness and helpfulness in their emotional bank accounts |
what is the first step in making a deposit in someone's Emotional Bank Account? | finding out what a deposit is for the other person |
What does a deposit of a small act of kindness look like? | treating someone with kindness |
What does a withdraw of a small act of kindness look like? | being unkind, discourteous, and disrespectful |
why is it important to keep promises in your relationships? | it can bankrupt the emotional bank account of your relationship |
why is keeping confidences so important? | some things can humiliate others and might get you in trouble |
why is gossiping about someone something to avoid? | it would cause the people listening to you to wonder if you're doing the same to them |
how can you be loyal to the absent? | by standing up for them if someone is talking bad about them |
why is it important to set clear expectations? | so everyone understands what needs to get done |
why is it important to apologize? | it turns into a bigger withdraw if you refuse to apologize |
why is it important to forgive and forget? | so that you can avoid hurting yourself in the same way that you did before |
what is the first rule in making a deposit? | a deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as that |
what is the second rule in making a deposit? | it can take more than one deposit ti make up for a withdraw |