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think win-win
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| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| win-lose | High on courage low on consideration, you are always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people |
| lose-win | "I always get step on" If your low on courage high on consideration, you don't stick up for yourself. |
| are you a doormat? | with a partner: being used for money in junior high. what could I have done different: could have realized and said no, then see what happens. |
| are you a doormat? | with a parent: N/A what could you do differently: N/A |
| are you a doormat? | with a close friend: Being used for food when we hung out. What could I have done different: ask him what is up or what going on at home so I could see why he always wanted food. |
| are you a doormat? | with a boss: N/A what could you do different: N/A |
| are you a doormat? | with a professor: I felt as I didn't learn anything from a math teacher in 7th grade I felt as he was getting paid for nothing. What could you have done differently: Could have asked him to actually teach or ask for help. |
| with a roommate? | N/A don't have siblings either |
| lose-lose | "If I'm going down your going down with me" if i cant win nobody wins. You envy and criticize others |
| win-win | "were going to win together" balancing courage and consideration are the best ways to help others and yourself |
| If you were in Petersen's place, how would you have responded? would you have received the winners trophy, or settled for second place? | I would have it's just the right thing to do, If it happened to me I would want the same. |
| lose-win | your in bottom right of matrix. high consideration low courage |
| lose-lose | your in bottom left of matrix. low courage low consideration. |
| win-lose | if your in the upper left corner. You're low in consideration and high on courage. |
| win-win | ultimately upper right hand corner is where you want to be. High in both courage and consideration. |
| A friend wants to buy your laptop for halve you listed it for what do you do? | I say no you have to buy it for the price I listed it for. |
| A classmate wants to copy your paper you made a A on. | I say no write you own paper. |
| someone you are dating starts pressuring you to get more physical than you would like. | I say I'm not there yet or I'm not ready for that yet. |
| someone you like invites you to go out late, but you have a test to study for. | I say I have to study for a important test hope you understand. |
| your mother post personal information on social media that you didn't want to become public. | I would say could you please delete the post you made about me? |
| your assigned to do a class project with a study partner who insist on doing it all them self because they want it done right. | I say, you do it but I will review it and change what i feel is necessary. |
| deposits and withdraws in emotional bank accounts | this is when you do something good for the relationship while withdraws are when you do something bad for the relationship |
| A deposit or a withdraw | ???? |
| took you to lunch to talk about a project you were working on. | deposit |
| Asked you to attend a class and take notes while they went away on a pleasure trip. | Withdrawal |
| Noticed you were having problems on your math assignments and pointed out what you were doing wrong. | deposit |
| gave you opera tickets for your birthday. | for me it's neutral |
| posted happy birthday message a month after your birthday. | withdrawal |
| do small act of kindness. | Treat people with kindness, connect with them for example introduce yourself to other students and tell them about yourself. |
| keep promises | nothing hurts relationships more than not keeping promises be carful before you say I promise or I commit |
| keep confidences | don't spread around info that not supposed to be spread around. |
| be loyal to the absent | avoid gossiping and bad mouthing it might come back to you later and stick up for your friends |
| set clear expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy for example, say we all need to read 100 pages by the next time we get together. |
| Apologize | if your wrong admit it, it will hurt the relationship. |
| forgive | learn to forgive and to forget |
| deposits | ???? |
| seek to understand what a deposit and withdrawal is for them | Britni |
| Show kindness, courtesy, and respect. | Britni and my mom |
| keep promises | everyone |
| keep confidences | everyone |
| be loyal to the absent | Sasha, Shane, Britni, family |
| set clear expectations | Britni and mom |
| Apologize | Everyone when needed |
| forgive | everyone when needed |
| Habit 4 assignment | ???? |
| I'm easy to get along with but not afraid to stand up for myself | 5 |
| friends think I'm too competitive | 2 |
| I always talk to me people as if they could here me | 3 |
| when I'm with people, I notice them and say hi | 5 |
| no one notices me | 2 |
| I take a lot of photos of my face and send them to people | 1 |
| I would buy a T-shirts for charity- and for the cool design | 5 |
| It's not enough for me just to win others must lose | 1 |
| I'm in debt because I can't say no to all to all those nice people who call me and ask for money | 1 |
| you're beautiful and so am I | 4 |
| total points | 45 |
| thanks! |
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