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Habit 4 Study Guide
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down, you're going down with me" |
| Win-Win | "We're going to win together" |
| Consideration | keeping others' feelings in mind |
| Find Out What a Deposit is for then Other Person | find out what the other person likes because you may choose something that is actually a withdrawal |
| Do Small Acts of Kindness | treat others with kindness because it is often a deposit for others |
| Keep Promises | nothing bankrupts the EBA faster than to break a serious promise |
| EBA (Emotional Bank Account) | the key to making friends is to deposit acts of kindness and helpfulness in their EBAs and avoid making withdrawals |
| Keep Confidences | when someone shares something in confidence with you, keep it that way |
| Be Loyal to the Absent | avoid gossiping or backbiting |
| Set Clear Expectations | make clear demands and follow through on what's expected |
| Apologize | if you're in the wrong, admit it now |
| Forgive | learn to forgive and forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt |
| Lose-Lose | envy and criticize others |
| Lose-Lose | low courage-low consideration |
| Win-Win | ready to walk away before someone loses |
| Win-Win | high courage-high consideration |
| Win-Lose | always trying to get ahead of others |
| Win-Lose | high courage-low consideration |
| Lose-Win | permanent victim personality/always getting walked all over |
| Lose-Win | low courage-high consideration |
| Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what" |
| Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on" |