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Habit 4 Study Guide
Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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Win-Lose | You're always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. You're proud. You can't win unless other people loose. |
Lose-Win | You're insecure. Your'e not brave enough to stick up for yourself. |
Lose-Lose | If you can't win, nobody wins. You get revenge. |
Win | Students with this paradigm think only of themselves and not others. |
Pyrrhic Victories | A victory where the winner turns out to also be a loser. |
Scarcity | The belief that the world is like a pie and there is only so much of it to go around. |
Abundance | The belief there is plenty to go around for everybody. That person believes the "pie" can grow forever. |
Win-Win or No Deal | I want everyone to win. There's enough to go around for everybody. If you can't win, then forget about it. |
What is a deposit for the other person? | What you think is a deposit for the other person may in fact be a withdrawal in his or her mind. You won't know unless you find out. |
What are small acts of kindness? | Treat a people with kindness, give them a good compliment be compassionate. |
What affect does keeping your promise? | Important to make good on your word and be very careful before using the words " I promise" or "I commit." |
Definition of being loyal? | Keep confidences. When someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way. Be loyal to the absent. Avoid gossiping. |
Don't leave things fuzzy especially with roommates what does this mean? | Set clear expectations |
Apologize | If your in the wrong, admit it: Don't wait and don't make excuses |
Give Feedback | Sincere, honest feedback is a deposit if it's done with tact, so let people know how you feel and what a win is for you. Don't hide things from people. |
Forgive | Learn to forgive and forget so that you don't keep turning yourself the way you were hurt. |