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Habit 4 Think WinWin
Flash Cards Study Guide
Under the See-Do-Get for think win-win what should you SEE? | There is plenty for everyone, It's possible to win in a way that others win too, and no one has to lose |
Under the See-Do-Get for think win-win what should you Do? | Balance Courage, Be happy for success for others, Share credit and recognition, Make Deposits to Emotional Bank Accounts |
Under the See-Do-Get for think win-win what will you Get? | More wins, faster, better solutions to problems, and richer lasting relationships |
What are the 5 Paradigms of Human Interaction? | 1. Win-Lose 2. Lose-Win 3. Lose-Lose 4. Win 5. Win-Win or No Deal |
Win-Lose | You win when others lose "I'm going to beat you no matter what" |
Lose-Win | Not brave enough to stick up for yourself "I always get stepped on" |
Lose-Lose | If you can't win nobody wins "If I'm going down, you're going down with me" |
Win | Thinking of yourself and no one else "As long as I win, I don't care if you win or lose" |
Win-Win or No Deal | Wanting everyone to win "Let's find a solution that works for both of us or let's not play" |
Win-Win Thinkers Do | Balance Courage with Consideration Happy for success of others Share credit and recognition Makes deposition into other's Emotional Bank Account |
What does it mean to have Balance Courage with Consideration? | Being considerate for others takes proactive patience sometimes may need to walk away..need a balance of both |
What does it mean to be Happy for success of Others? | Glad to see other people succeed |
How to Share Credit and Recognition? | Don't feel threatened when someone else wins, give credit when it is due |
Why should we make deposits in other people's Emotional Bank Account? | Always good to make deposits to other's Emotional Bank Accounts. Deposits are helpful to others |
What are 8 Deposits A Person Can Make? | 1. Find out what a deposit is for the other person 2. Do small acts of kindness 3. Keep Promises 4. Be Loyal 5. Set Clear Expectations 6. Apologize 7. Give Feedback 8. Forgive |
Habit 4 : Think Win-Win | is the key to succeeding in all your relationships with people-friends, wives, husbands, family, teachers, study groups, roommates, ect. |