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Habit 4 study Guide
Term | Definition |
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'"win-lose" | "im going to beat you no matter what". Someone has to win and someone has to lose |
"lose-Win" | " I always get stepped on" having a "poor me" mentailty. "i always lose and they always win" |
"lose-lose" | "if im going down, youre going down with me" |
"win-win" | "we're going to win together" |
'make deposits in other peoples "Emotional Bank Accounts" | deposit acts of kindness and helpfulness into others Emothional Bank Accounts and avoid "withdrawls" |
Do small acts of kindness | treating people with kindness is considered a deposit |
keep promises | nothing bankrupts an "EBA" more than breaking promises |
keep confidences | When someone shares something with you in confidence, keeop it that way. |
Be loyal to the absent | Avoid gossiping about someone behind their back |
set clear expectations | be upfront about what you are asking someone to do or being asked to do then follow through on whats expected |
apologize | if youre in the wrong, admit it. making excuses instead of making things better turns into an even bigger withdrawl |
forgive | learn to forgive and forget so that you dont keep hurting yourself the way you were once hurt |