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HABIT 4 WIN-WIN
Question | Answer |
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What is WIN-WIN? | win-win is about building relationships with people by working for their benefit while you are working for your own benefit. |
What are the 4 slots on the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | WIN-LOSE, WIN-WIN/ NO DEAL, LOSE-LOSE, LOSE-WIN |
What is a key to making new friends? | making deposits into their emotional bank account |
Name 4 types of "deposits" you can make into someones EBA. | Keep promises, being loyal to the absent, apologize, forgive |
If you are high on courage and low on consideration, then where would you fall into the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | WIN-LOSE |
If you are low on courage and high on consideration then where would you fall into the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | LOSE-WIN |
If you can't win , nobody wins, where do you fall into the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | LOSE-LOSE |
If you have the attitude " We're going to win together" where do you fail into the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | WIN-WIN |
Define-- do small acts of kindness. | means to treat people with kindness |
Define-- Keep Promises. | if you tell someone you will do something then do it. nothing bankrupts an EBA like BROKEN PROMISES |
Define--Keep confidences | means when someone shares something in confidence, keep it that way. Do not spread it around. |
Define--Be loyal to the absent.. | means to avoid gossiping and talking behind someones back. can lead to others wondering if you do the same to them. |
Define--Set clear expectations | means don't be fuzzy on the details. be to the point of what you are talking about, don't leave them assuming what you meant. |
Define-- Apologize | means if your in the wrong own up to it. |
Define- Forgive | learn to forgive and forget, don't let yesterday hold your tomorrow hostage. |