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Habit 4 Study Guide
Flashcard Method
Term | Definition |
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Win-Lose. | "I'm going to beat you no matter what." High on courage, low on consideration. |
Lose-Win. | "I always get stepped on." Low on courage, high on consideration. |
Lose-Lose. | "If I'm going down, you're going down with me." If you can't win, nobody wins. |
Win-Win. | "We're going to win together." Balancing courage and consideration. |
Find out what a Deposit Is for the Other Person. | What you think is an emotional deposit for a person, may be a withdrawl for them. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness. | Treat people with kindness |
Keep Promises. | Keep your word and be very careful before saying, "I promise" or "I commit." |
Keep confidences. | When someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way. |
Be loyal to the absent. | Avoid gossiping or backbiting. |
Set clear expectations. | Don't leave things fuzzy and follow through on what's expected. |
Apologize. | If you're in the wrong, admit it. |
Forgive. | Learn to forgive and to forget to stope hurting the way you were hurt. |
EBA | Emotional Bank Account |
Deposit Rule #1 | A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as a deposit. |
Deposit Rule#2 | It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |