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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Term | Definition |
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Win-Lose | High on Courage and low on Consideration. Always trying to get ahead of people to be better. Ex. I don't need to outrun the bear, just need to outrun you |
Lose-Win | Low on courage and high on Consideration. Always trying to help others and not sticking up for yourself. Ex.) Boyfriend always gets his way |
Lose-Lose | Low on Courage and consideration. Always trying to get back at people. Envy, Revenge, criticize. Ex.) If I cant have Justin, Stephanie can't have him either. |
Win-Win | Ready to win, or no deal. Balance of Courage and consideration. Ex.) Letting the runner finish first because of the wrong turn |
Emotional Deposits | 1. Do acts of Kindness 2. Keep Promises 3. Keep Confidences 4. Be loyal in the absent 5. Set clear expectations 6. Apologize 7. Forgive |
Rules for making Deposits | 1. A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as a Deposit 2. It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawl |
Withdrawl | Negative deposit i.e.) Broken Promise, being rude, being too cocky |