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Think Win-Win
Balancing both Consideration, and Consideration
Question | Answer |
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With winning, What is the correct mentality to have? | Helping others win is just as important as a personal win. |
What are the balances between consideration and courage, in all 4 relationships? | Lose-Win - High Consideration, Low Courage Lose-lose - Low Consideration, Low Courage Win-Lose - Low Consideration, High Courage Win-Win - High Consideration, High Courage |
What are the characteristics/ mentalities of one in a Win-Lose relationship? | -"Im going to beat you no matter what". - Striving to be better or get ahead of others. -Can't Win unless one loses - Unsympathetic, Inconsiderate, unkind. - Want to be the best by feeling to compete. |
What are the characteristics/ mentalities of one in a Lose-Win relationship? | -"I always get stepped on" -Insecure -Can't stand for yourself -Bury Feelings -Always seeking Empathy |
What are the characteristics/ mentalities of one in a Lose-Lose relationship? | -"If Im going down, you're going down with me". - Always seeking revenge. - Put others Down (often yourself) - Criticize others |
What are the characteristics/ mentalities of one in a Win-Win relationship? | -" We're going to win together". - Ready to walk away if either parties have potential to lose. (no deal) - The perfect balance of Courage and Consideration. - Takes proactive patience. |
What is the meaning of (EBA), How is it used? | Emotional Bank Accounts. If you view one of having an emotional bank, you are able to either Deposit kindness, help, reassurance or Withdrawal, which is complete opposite. |
Define a Deposit of the EBA | A deposit is anything that helps the relationship. Changes for the better Ex. Lies, broken promises |
Define a Withdrawal of the EBA | A withdrawal is anything that hurts the relationship. Only moving backwards |
What are the 2 important rules when making deposits? | 1. A deposit is only a deposit if the other person views it as a deposit. 2. It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |
What are things to do within a relationship to prevent withdrawals? | -Small acts of Kindness -Keep Promises -Keep Confidences - Be loyal to the absent - Set clear expectations - Apologize (don't wait) -Forgive and Forget |
What is the beneficial key to making new friends? | By depositing acts of kindness and helpfulness in their EBA. |