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Habit 4
Think Win Win
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| #1 Key Active Listening Skill | Be Attentive |
| #2 Key Active Listening Skill | Ask Open ended Questions |
| #3 Key Active Listening Skill | Ask Probing Questions |
| #4 Key Active Listening Skill | Request Clarification |
| #5 Key Active Listening Skill | Paraphrase |
| #6 Key Active Listening Skill | Be attuned to and reflect feelings |
| #7 Key Active Listening Skill | Summarize |
| How to Start Making a Deposit in Other People's Emotional Bank Accounts (EBA)? | Find out what a deposit is for the other person |
| Making a Withdrawal from a EBA is being discourteous. What is the deposit into the EBA? | Do small acts of kindness. |
| Making a Withdrawal from a EBA is not making good on your word. What is the deposit into the EBA? | Keeping Promises. |
| Making a Withdrawal from a EBA is revealing other people's secrets. What is the deposit into the EBA? | Keep Confidences. |
| Making a Withdrawal from a EBA is gossiping. What is the deposit into the EBA? | Be loyal to the absent. |
| Making a Withdrawal from a EBA is being flaky. What is the deposit into the EBA? | Set Clear Expectations. |
| What is the deposit into the EBA that helps both parties move forward quicker? | Forgive Apologize |
| What are the 2 Rules for making Deposits in the EBA? | The other person must see it as a deposit. It can take one+ deposits to repair a withdrawal. |