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Comm 211 - Unit 3
Study tools for the Unit 3 exam that cover pages 267 - 288
Question | Answer |
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List the eight reasons that we form relationships? | Appearance, similarity, complementary, reciprocal attraction, competence, disclosure, proximity, and rewards. |
relational maintenance | communication aimed at keeping relationships operating smoothly and satisfactorily |
initiating | a stage characterized by communication that is usually brief that generally follows conventional formulas |
uncertainty reduction | the process of getting to know others by gaining more information about them |
experimenting | an early stage consisting of a search for common ground |
intensifying | stage in which parties increase the amount of contact and the breadth and depth of self-disclosure |
integration | stage in which the parties begin to take on a single identity |
bonding | stage in which parties make symbolic public gestures to show that their relationship exists |
differentiating | a stage in which the parties re-establish their individual identities after having bonded together |
circumscribing | a stage in which partners begin to reduce the scope of their contact and commitment to one another |
stagnating | a stage characterized by declining enthusiasm and standardized forms of behavior |
avoiding | a stage in which the parties minimize contact with one another |
terminating | a stage characterized by the acknowledgment of one or both parties that the relationship is over |
Dialectical tensions | Conflicts that arise when two opposing or incompatible forces exist simultaneously |
Connection-autonomy dialectic | the tension between the need for integration and the need for independence in a relationship |
Openness-privacy dialectic | the tension between the need for disclosure and the need for privacy in a relationship |
Predictability-novelty dialectic | the tension between the need for stability and the need for novelty in a relationship |
Denial | Communicators respond to one end of the dialectical spectrum and ignore the other |
Disorientation | communicators feel so overwhelmed and helpless that they are unable to confront their problem. |
Alternation | communicators that use this choose one end of the dialectical spectrum at sometimes and the other end at other times |
Segmentation | partners who use this tactic compartmentalize different areas of their relationship |
What are the five strategies that couples use to keep their interaction satisfying? | Positivity, Openness, Assurance, Social Network, Sharing Tasks |
Relational transgressions | one partner’s violation of the explicit or implicit terms of the relationship, letting the other one down in some important way |
What are some types of Relational Transgressions? | Lack of Commitment, distance, disrespect, problematic emotions, and aggression |
What is the difference between a minor and a significant relational transgression? | minor relational transgressions can actually help the relationship such as a little distance or a little jealousy, but in large doses these transgressions can really damage relationships |
What is the difference between a social and a relational relational transgression? | a social relational transgression violates the rules of society while a relational one would violate the rules of those within a particular relationship |
What is the difference between a deliberate and an unintentional relational transgression? | a deliberate relational transgression is the act of actively say or do something to hurt the other person, while and unintentional relational transgression is more likely to be a slip of the tongue where you say something you were supposed to keep quiet. |
What is the difference between a one-time and an incremental relational transgression? | a one-time relational transgression is where the occurrence happens in a single episode, but an incremental relational transgression is something that happens repeatedly and over a longer period of time. |