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Human Development
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| Two sets of beliefs a child learns from interacting with their parents | 1. will others be there when I need them? 2. Am I worthy of love? |
| Mens style communication | report oriented, stronger focus on solution and hierarchy, task oriented, ment try to avoid failure |
| Womens style communication | rapport oriented, stronger focus on feelings and connection, relationship oriented |
| Benefits of marriage | live longer, happier than others, more likely to enjoy sex, more wealthy |
| Fertility Trends | has dipped bc concerns of income, cost of healthcare/insurance, and childcare |
| Cohabiting Trends | 48% of couples start living together befor marriage, theres a removal of stigma, people worry about divcorce and this is safe. |
| Divorce Trends | Declined. |
| Marriage Trends | Low. 30- men, 28-women |
| How to fix Insecure Attachment Style | connect, more aware, reach out |
| Insecure Anxious Attachment Style | worries abt being abandoned or neglected. I cant count on you |
| Insecure Avoidant Attachment Style | More emotionally private, difficulty asking abt their needs. No one will be their |
| Secure Attachment | the ability to maintain close relationships with others. |
| Family Roles | Hero, Rebel, Rescuer/Enabler, Mascot, Lost Child, Manipulator, Martyr |
| How to soften your start up | Use I statements in this process rather than “you” statements to complain, not blame. Describe the behavior that is happening, rather than criticizing |
| metacommunication | communicating about the way you communicate |
| Triangulation- what it looks like and how to avoid | When the tension between 2 people becomes to great, and a common response to pull in a third party either to get them to take your side or possibly to get them to be the "bad guy" Avoid- Initially you can stay neutral |
| Impact of tension in the home on children | poor stress management, increased relationship problems, more negative outlook on life |
| Common conflict traps and how to resolve them | Rambling on too long when were angry Storing grievance and resentment- try to resolve issues when they come up, make sure to have fun and not js talking about problems Being vicious- de-escalating the issue when intense, be respectful Not allowing time |
| Negative sentiment override | |
| Positive sentiment override | |
| Speaker Listener Technique | |
| How does parenting (including communication) impact sexual choices in children | postpones an individual sexual activity, helps raise sexually responsible children, more likely to use birth control |
| What parents should teach children about sex and what ages | toddler- body parts Age 5- good/bad touch Age 8- mechanics of sex adolescents 12- healthy couple interaction |
| What should you be telling your teenagers about sex and relationships? | Describe different types of abuse and their warning signs, explain the difference of lust, infatuation, and love. |
| What have studies found about American sexual behavior? | Married= More sex and orgasms, penile vaginal sex is most popular |
| Libido differences | Sense of appreciation, relaxation, good foreplay, spontaneous vs. responsive desire, breaks vs. accelerators, explore and resolve hidden resentments. |
| Differences between men and women | |
| How does gender socialization happen? | The more a girl interacted with the Disney princess culture, the more likely she is to view herself in _____________________ ways ● Including, being less confident in their ability to engage in math and science. ● Also less inclined to experiment wit |
| Differences between mother influence and father influence in a childs life | Mothers report arguing with & yelling at their children more, but also spending more time with them and talking to them more. ● They also report more satisfaction & confidence in their parental rol Teaches self-control, emotional intelligence & heal |
| Maternal gatekeeping | The birth of a child represents a significant disruption to the couple dyad. Children do best when both parents are involved Dads should take initiative and don’t give up, even if there are signs of disapproval Mothers should focus on compliment |
| Sex division of household labor | When wives are satisfied with the division of labor, both spouses report higher marital quality. |
| Emotion work and mental work | Emotional Listening closely to family member’s thoughts ● Showing appreciation ● Approached differently by men and women ● Women also held more accountable for this Mental Planning and monitoring children’s activities ● Invisible and is difficult t |
| How does money relate to happiness | |
| Financial predictors of happy and unhappy couples | |
| Signs of poor money management | |
| Dealing with gender pay gap | |
| How to improve your credit score (and why you should) |