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pysch realtionships
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| ranging from | super negative through neutral to super positive |
| you may not intend to | annoy belittle your lover but we rally know that they do |
| Gaps are actually more likely to | occur in close relationships the they are with strangers |
| Put on caps without looking at | them they don't know what they are wearing |
| provides information | about people's moods of meaning |
| Nonverbal behavior helps | to define the relationships we share with others |
| people don't learn to | smile when they're happy they're born to do it |
| display rules | cultural norms that dictate what emotions are appropriate in particular situations |
| we may neutralize our | expressions trying to withhold our true feelings |
| nonverbal communication | can be both subtle and meaningful |
| woman question the morality of a male stranger | when his nipples are exrcit |
| only half of a second | can accrutaly judge whether they are gay or straight 60% of the time |
| Interpersonal distance | physical space that separates two people |
| personal zone | ranges from 1 1/2 too 4 feet away from us |
| public zones | used for structured interactions like that between an instructor and their students in a le ture class |
| you can smell them too | you'll likely gain more info then you realize |
| parosmia | lasting change in one's sense of smell that can cause aromas that once enticing |
| paraluuages | doesn't involve what people say but how they say it |
| sarcasm | people say one thing but mean another |
| Mimicry | occurs during a conversation which the participants adopt similar postures and mannerisms |
| both husbands and wives understand | stranger better than they understand each other |
| self disclosure | revealing personal info to someone else |
| Breadth | Variety of topics they discuss |
| reciprocity | new partners tend to match each other's level of openness disclosing more as the other person does and disclosing legs if the other person's self disclosing declines |
| responsiveness | indicates that they understand us, care about us |
| weak ties and although our | interactions with them seem trivial they're routinely more consequael than we realize |
| Both intimate self | disclosure and selectiveness secretcy contribute to material satisfaction |
| taboo topic | sensitive matters that in their opinion may threaten the quality of their relationship |
| secret tests | their lover fidelity and devotion |
| 26% of bisexuals adults aren't | out to any important people in their lives |
| self disclosed relationships is not only | good for relationships its good for us |
| There are some gender differences in verbal | communication that can influence our interactions |
| There are meaningful differences in | language age from one person to the next |
| Drinks, Dancing characterized | extra verts |
| gender difference | more closely associated with people's gender roles than with their biological sex |
| many more men are more teritum than | the average woman |
| Relationships is the manner in which it | Provides us private access to others |
| unhappy people do a | poor job saying what they mean |
| offbeam | wandering to topic to topic so that the conversation never stays on one problem long enough to resolve it |
| mind reading | people assume that they understand and their partners thoughts feelings and opinions without asking |
| yes butting | communicates constant criticism at the others point of view |
| unhappy partners too often | display negative affect when they talk to each other |
| intention to hurt, himilate, their partners demonstrates | that they presently judge their partners to be stupid, unfit, inferior |
| stonewalling | partner clams up and reacts to the messy situation by withdrawing into a stony silence |
| First u should | mention the person's loss |
| you can offer comfort to others as long as u avoid the | pitfalls of saying too much |
| I statements | specify our feelings i statements start with i and than describe a distinct emotional reaction |
| Listen when u complain to partner are u saying | you're so inconsiderate you never let me finish |
| Or are you being precise, accurate and saying what you mean | when u intterpt me just now I feel annoyed |
| paraphrasing | message repeating it in ur own words |
| perception checking people's access the | accuracy of their inferences about a person's feelings by asking the partner for clarification |
| they are being responsive and that's | a good thing |
| negative affect reciprocity | contemptuous of each other with each being scornful of what the others have to say |
| Take temporary time get to | stop cycle |
| validation | partners that acknowledge the legitimacy of their opinions and communicates respect for their position |