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Negotiations week 12
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| overconfidence bias | overestimate liklihood of getting positive outcome |
| egocentrism: | hold self serving perceptions of fairness, think strongly that we are right |
| fundamental attribution error | tend to attribute others bad behavior to their personality instead of the situation |
| when giving advice on handling conflict, we assume other party is | cooperative |
| interpersonal conflict | process 2 or more employees perceive interests, goals compatible, leads to tension, disagreement |
| 2 types of conflict | task where disagree over work, can turn into relationship conflict relationship where personalities clash |
| benefits of conflict | better ideas, problem solving, stronger relationships |
| dual selves to managing conflict | the cooperator: look for win win, learn about interests, be bigger person the CYAer: keep a paper trail, gather evidence just in case, good when conflict with superior |
| 5 tips to handling conflict | - take other persons perspective - remember contingency perspective: some conflict not worth fight - focus on interests - manage negative emotions - avoid venting |
| doormat effect | see every conflict as one to avoid |
| handling negative emotions | saying emotion better than displaying it |
| 3 components to difficult convo | - the what happend: avoid battles of truth but learn eachothers truth - feelings: avoid ignoring emotions, aim to address without judgement - identity: avoid all or nothing, aim to understand issue |
| apology formula | explicitly apologize, acknowledge offense, explain what happened, express remorse, offer to make amends |
| Deborah 2 convo styles | turn takers: wait until clear pause to talk cooperative overlapper: get engaged and see any sort of pause as signal that they werent listening so will jump in before other person finishes, dont realize doing it |
| should you reply all | yes so that everyone is on the same page |